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Beka
Joined: Nov 9, '09
Status: New User
2009-11-18 08:59:19
Does anyone else get people thinking they are cold?

because they find it hard to trust other people?

or to share personal info and tell people how your feeling?

Or is it just me that feels this way?

Please reply, thank you xxx
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   So which razor/blade posted by Hip 3 hours ago
Delirius
Joined: Nov 3, '09
Status: Junior User
2009-11-18 21:22:42
You mean like terse cold? Treat people with no sympathy or emotion?
Beka
Joined: Nov 9, '09
Status: New User
2009-11-19 08:15:40
yeah not cold as in omg its friking freezing lol
AngstyKitsune
Joined: Nov 19, '09
Status: New User
2009-11-19 14:31:38
I get that. Or "distant", or "reserved", "withdrawn", "unapproachable", and "scary". Lucky me, I even have the perfect genetic quirk to go with it too. *forcedlaugh* My eyebrows grow together. Not into a normal unibrow, either. That would only get more people mocking me. No...mine turn down just before they meet, so unless I shave it, it looks like I'm ALWAYS scowling.

Except...I feel like I really do have no emotion. I can trust some people, at least mostly, but eventually I start doubting them...like how my friend seemed fine with it when I blurted out I was Bi, but now it seems like we hardly ever hang out, and I wonder...Sorry, I'm getting off topic. I have a bad habit of rambling...and you probably think I'm stalking you the way I keep showing up in your topics....
Beka
Joined: Nov 9, '09
Status: New User
2009-11-19 14:57:22
i get off topic easily too. nah i dont find it weird i like it when i see the same names are replying a lot :) thanks
AscendedSpirt
Joined: Nov 20, '09
Status: New User
2009-11-20 09:04:25
You should not let others opinions weigh so heavily on yourselves. I do not care if others percieve me as "cold" or "distant". This is how I am. My reason for being so is based on the fact that everyone could be plotting against you. They could lead you to your demise. But to exist in this society, you must put on a false front. Make them believe you trust them while you gather information about them. This has worked for me and proved me right when it comes to trusting other people.
Beka
Joined: Nov 9, '09
Status: Junior User
2009-11-20 10:01:00
i dont let people know that they make me feel that way though
johnny
Joined: Nov 22, '09
Status: New User
2009-11-22 01:15:53
maybe it's cause you live in canada

ahahah

anyways, i kind of feel the same way too
except people do not think i am cold

and i frequently gets paranoid about motives of people,i find it kind of hard to trust people even though i try pretty hard to make friends, but lots of times i just find myself doubting their loyalty and lose friends

I don't let people know how i feel though either
Beka
Joined: Nov 9, '09
Status: Junior User
2009-11-22 04:09:28
im reaaly bad at making new friends but have two best friends i know i can trust and three i cant. but i never let them know that.
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