how do u tell if your bisexual?

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jazznunya
Joined: Dec 20, '09
Status: New User
2009-12-22 19:37:46
i've always liked boys but this summer i met my moms freind n i liked her. it was wierd for me becuse i saw her alot this summer n she wld give me hugs that wld also put me in a weird situation because sometime i didnt wana let go... so dose that ae me biexaul?
erinro
Joined: Nov 13, '09
Status: Junior User
2009-12-22 19:54:37
you are bisexual if you identify as bisexual, i.e. if you say you are. There's no litmus test for sexuality (thank god)
jazznunya
Joined: Dec 20, '09
Status: New User
2009-12-22 20:06:35
haha i still feel wierd i've only like my moms frend n no other girl i acually had a dream about her. n i dont no why i like cuzz shes like 34 with 3 kids n shes married n shes bipolar i dont have a problem with her being bipolar just the rest of the stuff
Hip
Joined: Aug 10, '09
Status: Senior User
2009-12-22 20:13:21
Easy: do both sexes erotically arouse you?
haart
Joined: Oct 17, '09
Status: Senior User
2009-12-22 20:16:29
Lots of people question their sexuality, but being 12, you're far to young to have a solid idea. Whilst going through puberty, it's normal to be aroused by both sexes. You're so charged with hormones that you'd hump a tree. Normal. Wait a few years for things to settle down and then experiment.
jazznunya
Joined: Dec 20, '09
Status: New User
2009-12-22 20:45:29
another thing happened 2 qestion my sexuality is wen me n my frend angie slept in the same bed n she wrapped her leg around me n laid her head on my shoulder i almost wanted to kiss her til my moms frens face popped up in my head n it stopped me from kissing my frend
jazznunya
Joined: Dec 20, '09
Status: New User
2009-12-22 20:53:00
another thing happened that made me qestion my sexuality me n my frend angie were sleeping in the same bed she wrapped her leg around me n put her head on my shoulder i almost wanted to kiss her the only thing that was stopin me was that i liked my moms frend to much
erinro
Joined: Nov 13, '09
Status: Junior User
2009-12-22 20:59:46
>You're so charged with hormones that you'd hump a tree.
too funny, haart

>Normal
exactly
Novocain
Joined: Dec 3, '09
Status: Junior User
2009-12-23 00:51:48
Sorry, hope you don't mind if I answer your question with a quote, because I'm terrible at explaining my opinion on the subject. :P

"I think everyone's bisexual to some degree or another; it's just a question of whether or not you choose to recognize it and embrace it. Personally, I think choosing between men and women is like choosing between cake and ice cream. You'd be daft not to try both when there are so many different flavours"

'Tis a quote by Bjork, who is fawken amazing. ^^

jazznunya
Joined: Dec 20, '09
Status: New User
2009-12-23 09:24:23
its not the first time i qestioned my sexuality me n my frend angie were sleeping in the same bed then she wrapped her leg around me n put her head on my shoulder i almost wanted to kiss her but i stopped cuz i liked my moms frend to much
jazznunya
Joined: Dec 20, '09
Status: New User
2009-12-23 10:28:36
lol theres another pronlem i like my moms frend n i also like my moms frends son
jazznunya
Joined: Dec 20, '09
Status: New User
2009-12-23 20:51:18
lol i dont like cake that much but i like ice cream
SERENExNIGHTMARE
Joined: Feb 23, '10
Status: New User
2010-02-27 11:47:42
Well, basically i have this to say.

Perhaps I may be right, maybe not. You live your life i live mine. Y^Y


You just probably have a very high respect and fondness for your moms friend. This does not have to mean you are bisexual.

The thing with your friend is another subject. Like the others say, if you really are 12, you can't possibly know. Though i hate this saying, you are quite too young.

I'm 14, so i know how annoying that is to hear. But in this case, i think your mind is over-exaggerating.

Furthermore, I in fact don't believe necessarily in straight, gay, or Bi.

Love is love, and it is not prejudice.

I'm mainly thinking out loud, and i hope this helps.
DRKaNGeL1073
Joined: Feb 28, '10
Status: New User
2010-02-28 22:08:33
yeah i know how you feel. i just recently aknowledged that I am bisexual. i'm 14 but i started going through puberty at 10 so i dont think thats the hormones kicking in. For me it was just noticing the I was looking at the girls the same if not more than i was checking out the guys
Natalie
Joined: Feb 9, '10
Status: Junior User
2010-03-01 00:14:30
wow your kidding right your 12!!!lmfao ok at that age you definantly would not know if you are bisexual. you probly just have mother issues and look up to her as a mother youve been longing for and got it mixed up with bisexual ...at that age your hormones are all mixed up you wont exactly know till you are 18 .when i was 15-17 i thought i was bisexual i slept with girls and guys and now i just figured im open minded and sex is sex doesnt mattr if its a girl or guy but you wont know for sure till your done with puberty and hormones that you get when your younger....to this day i hate the look of mens bodys i think there gross and womans are hot lol but just be who you are and dont think about it so much bing bisexual isnt a crime just live your life and what happens ...happens.
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