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Annette Joined: Dec 19, '09 Status: Junior User	2010-01-16 17:14:25
	I don't know if looking good is the answer at any age. I was slimmest and (sort of pretty) in my 20's...but one of the most miserable times of my life. I ate so little that I would get searing chest pains. The low self esteem did not get better just because I thought I looked better. I still attracted men who treated me like s---. I still did so many destructive things. I dunno it just really sort of clicked at some stage to me, that I did not want friends who put looks first. I did not want a boyfriend who liked me because I was skinny. I am 42 yrs old now, slightly overweight and never been more comfortable with myself. Yay...I actually like his thread, making me realise how fortunate I am. Thanx erinro.
Hip Joined: Aug 10, '09 Status: Senior User	2010-01-16 18:20:45
	lol thanks elisa, but I dunno how the hell you find a hairy chest and overused rough skin sexy? I can tell youre not from America if you find that s--- hot, damn... In addition, dust, sweat and dirt easily cling to hairs, which contribute to the long term skin deterioration. Shaving all the time also contributes to unevenness. Besides, someone convince me the f---ing PURPOSE of hair anywhere except the head in the first place? Why do I need snot to get caught in my mustache when I sneeze? Why do I need dick hair? To make a girl gag and refuse to give me head? erinro, I smoke pot, not cigarettes, and yes I wear gloves, they dont help much. When a heavy box rubs against your glove, the glove rubs against your skin. And yes we dudes do have to worry in this metrosexual trend where you cant just be some ripped drooling dickwad like Sylvester Stallone (ugliest motherf---er ever to become a respected celebrity) in the 1970's back when that kinda image was popular and hot. Back then, all a guy's obligation was to chuck bricks for a living, get you pregnant and protect you women, but now we have to wash our own clothes, wear tight pants and be as cute as you. You women are so insatiable, damn!
Annette Joined: Dec 19, '09 Status: Junior User	2010-01-16 18:52:49
	LOL Hip...I see why you have a fan club...funny as! :D It's all personal taste though, some women like hair on men, some don't... Some women like hair on other women goddammit!!!!
elisafauzana Joined: Aug 27, '09 Status: Senior User	2010-01-16 19:01:04
	well, of course i am not from america, hip. man with moustache, beard, chest hairs are the sexiest n macho-est in asia. but i think not all american girls will prefer cute, non-hairy guys. if not, tom selleck wouldn't hv been one of the top star there. dunt u find him sexy?:). i sure do. n rough hands are sexy bcs it indicates u work hard.
Hip Joined: Aug 10, '09 Status: Senior User	2010-01-16 19:18:16
	"man with moustache, beard, chest hairs are the sexiest n macho-est in asia." I can see why... "if not, tom selleck wouldn't hv been one of the top star there. dunt u find him sexy?:). i sure do" That guy doesnt have near of a forest infestation problem, I got a f---ing chimp chest D: "n rough hands are sexy bcs it indicates u work hard." You cant be serious. Physical labor is for losers.
elisafauzana Joined: Aug 27, '09 Status: Senior User	2010-01-16 20:01:48
	well not for me. i find physical labors more appealing. the rough hands n muscles n sweats.. ok..i'm a isolated case here..but what i am trying to say is, whatever u hv that u think is bugging u, is actually not a problem for me. n i believe there r american girls who'll agree with me. unless u r after those hot, picky chicks.
kjs Joined: Dec 2, '09 Status: Junior User	2010-01-17 20:17:26
	OKay I am 48 years old...alot of my co-workers think i am around 35...I love it.. I guess I have good genes..my mother is beautiful..I am Italian, mom's side of the fam. I like callaused hands...I work in a Home Depot store and you should see the hands on the contractors...rough and rugged but so worn...I don't know though it's kinda sexy...
erinro Joined: Nov 13, '09 Status: Senior User	2010-01-17 20:24:23
	Lucky you! Someone recently thought I was 25 but I think it's just because she thinks I'm immature! I feel like I look 35 (at 29).. Which is not a bad age to look now but not good sign for future. Italians have great skin..
kjs Joined: Dec 2, '09 Status: Junior User	2010-01-17 20:29:56
	I wish I was 29....Hell I wish I was 35!
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