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DreamAngel
Joined: Sep 6, '09
Status: New User |
2009-09-06 22:02:25 |
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In my results it says that I have Lack of generosity and inflexible, which is definetly not true. I go without to give to others. This is the way I have been my whole life. I can't understand that when I read that part why it bothered me alot. I can also say that my feeling are hurt. Also, I am flexible, especially with my children. It just seems today that you have to be because there is so much going on in our lives. With the rest of the results, they are very true. I like things in order and clean. My family used to make fun of me, but several years ago, I had an accident and it made me realize that I dont have to be overly compulsive. But I still like things done. Little things tend to annoy me. Like a picture crocked or a knict-knack out of place. This may seem funny, but to me it is annoying. I just went back and read my results and the first thing was need for perfection. Yes I do like things perfect and everyone knows that about me, but I also realize that sometimes they can't be and I can live with that. But as far as excessive discipline, that is not me. I am not disciplined in things I do or to my children. Actually far from it. I let them get away with most everything. The only thing I ask of them is that school comes first. Not having a good eduction myself, I want better for them and they know that. I am very lucky that my kids come to me with everything and I mean everything, lol. Even their friends come to me with their problems. I am called the "cool parent". I am very open and honest with them. My kids tell me that actually most of their friends dont even talk to their parents. That they dont tell them anything. Whereas, my kids come to me and tell me about their friends, what they do, i.e. drugs, sex. We have a very open and honest relationship, which I am very luck to have. Which was something I never had with my parents, so I swore to my husband that when we had kids that we would be open and honest with them and he agrees. I wish more parents would with their kids, because my kids friends tell me that they wish they had that type of relationship with their parents that my kids have with us. Now back to OCD, why and I letting this bother me that it said I am not generous, inflexible and demand decipline. Sorry I rambled on but I hope someone can help me with this. Thanks for reading and I hope to hear from someone soon. Thank you. Rose |
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loumc69
Joined: Sep 7, '09
Status: New User |
2009-09-07 12:53:48 |
| You sound like an amazing mother and a lovely person. Keep going xx | |