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kira
Joined: Nov 4, '09
Status: New User |
2009-11-04 11:02:29 |
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hello i'm actually new to this sort of forum.....so please excuse me for being nervous. fact is i seem to high Histrionic, Narcissistic and Dependent. but this being the case only when my FATHER is around. as a child i grew up in a very healthy family, truthfully never went through ANY sort of hardship.(thanks to ma dad....my hero) but after all this......from when i was around 12 years old...i became aware that my father actually wanted a son for a child and definitly not a daughter. (PLEASE DON'T HATE HIM FOR THIS or what follows!) for him- a girl is someone who NEEDS to depend on someone always and cannot do anything better than men and the only way she can give pride to the family is by marrying a man who can bring pride without fail. (OK!! SO MY DAD HAS HIS OWN ISSUES!) coming back to me...... ever since i came to know that..i started turning into a tomboy(from being very lady-like) did everything a guy would do.....came in 1st place in sports, art and studies(SORRY!LOL...Histrionic, YA BUT I WOULDN'T LIE RIGHT NOW)....but my father wouldn't even acknowledge it! well i am 19 now..... and i am still stuck with trying different ways to impress him and he still dosen't care. i did try to move away from him a couple of time but everytime my father got a gist of it...he would lecture me about how much he loves me......i would eventually fall into the trap....back to square 1!!!!!!!! i am now studying business now so that i can do business with mY dad but the problem here is.....he has a different plan for me....get me married to someone rich so that i dont have to work!!! (COOL RIGHT!!! NOWAY!!!) i'm an aspiring artist and cannot sit still and always needs to be on the go. i am far from my father now(IN A DIFFERENT COUNTRY) but he has his ways of keeping me under his control...(REALLY SCARY :-S)but now i am very girly....i love being a girl and doing different stuff with friends and all of them know about this issue aswell(i promised my self never to lie to anyone but my father) and they support me and stuff......but i felt i needed more help from people who can actually relate to it. i hope someone responds to this...it's really long...(I KNOW!!!)but please help. if you want to see a photo of me with my dad and then away from him (WOW! I COULDN'T TELL THE DIFFERENCE!LOL) tell me any group site n i'll try n put it up. thanks a lot |
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Unanswered Thread: Scored "Very High" in schizotypal on every test I've taken.. posted by Music_Lover_247 1 min. ago |
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Delirius
Joined: Nov 3, '09
Status: New User |
2009-11-04 11:49:07 |
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What do you want help with? And is your name kira or is that from kingdom hearts? |
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kira
Joined: Nov 4, '09
Status: New User |
2009-11-04 12:00:19 |
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Firstly thanks for responding :-) and my name IS Kira...not familiar with kingdom hearts...sry...LOL i want to know how to get myself out of ma dads grip and make him understant i have a life and dream of my own. i just cant bring myself to do anything my dad says 'NO' to. how do i get myself to do it even if my dad objects it. i hope i was clear....:-S |
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Dyzzi
Joined: Oct 25, '09
Status: New User |
2009-11-08 22:57:04 |
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There is no character named Kira from Kingdom Hearts, Delirius. ..There's one named Kairi,though. xP (sorry, my otaku is showing. xD) And Kira, tell your dad to stop being such an old-fashioned Sexist. It's as if he thinks women are merely objects, and it's sickening. Make him see that you have your own mind. |
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Delirius
Joined: Nov 3, '09
Status: Junior User |
2009-11-08 23:05:58 |
| That will not go over well and damn haven't played in so long, time to go buy a ps2 | |
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Unanswered Thread: What to do?! posted by Jeanine 1 hour ago |
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