Narcissist, what was your childhood like?

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MeMyandI
Joined: Apr 21, '10
Status: New User
2010-04-24 13:37:19
:)
MeMyandI
Joined: Apr 21, '10
Status: New User
2010-04-24 14:36:58
My most prominent and nicest memory ofmy mother is her throwing a mayonaise pot right at me :)
Obsidian
Joined: Jan 22, '10
Status: Senior User
2010-04-24 15:48:59
Nothing in particular actually. :P
sweetness5
Joined: Apr 27, '10
Status: New User
2010-04-27 19:31:12
my nice memory well i have lots like my good for nothing father beat my mom or when he would rather do drugs then be with me or when his whole family told me i was going to amount to nothing.....thats the memory that i love the most because i proved them all wrong
ravenn89
Joined: Apr 26, '10
Status: New User
2010-04-30 06:48:35
i rele dont remember much about my childhood...i was kicked out of pre-school for fighting to much (mostly coz the other kids took my toys and s---) and at primary school i remember getting in trouble alot for s--- like breaking peoples lunchboxes and throwing big sticks at people
Dahlia
Joined: May 23, '10
Status: New User
2010-05-28 05:03:58
No traumatic stories for me to tell. My mother was pretty distant and not around that much, but that's about the extent of it. She was never a serious problem until I was about 16. And my dad was always great. Still is. They also didn't divorce until I was 16.
Correlation? Probably.
My point is that my childhood was actually pretty dandy. Nice house, good neighborhood, good education, an ordinary best friend, and an amazing father.
The worst I can say, was the school bullying. But I put a stop to that in high school. And I'm dealing with it.
I don't really think my childhood caused my narcissism or anything. I suppose it could have developed as a defense mechanism against the verbal abuse from my peers and later my mom, but there are a million other explanations, that are just as plausible.
C Michael
Joined: Jun 3, '10
Status: New User
2010-06-03 16:51:56
I am sorry that some of you have some traumatic experiences in your life, especially at a young age and with a member of the family whom you have loved.

I have similar experiences too, just like you. However, I overcame those traumatic experiences by telling myself the following :-

Since when I was in my teens, I used to tell my parents that "I am old enough to decide for myself. I am my own MAN !" Now that I am a man, I am responsible to myself to make a life for myself in the way that I want. I should not let others affect what I am today. Besides, those traumatic experience in the past were a small portion of the good experience that I had, in particular with that person who traumatised me. Forgive him/her... unconditionally.

Get on with you life, Michael !

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