i just found out i am Narcissitic and i am happy with it

kevin84u Joined: Feb 1, '10 Status: New User	2010-02-01 14:20:06
	Filled out a form and it said i was highly Narcisstic and after reading what that ment i have to agree almost totaly ,apart from using others which i dont do . All the rest is true and explains my midlife crisis when i hated growing older and done all i could to stop it .I messed up my life and now back onine .. there cannot be a cure for this so i and those who are with me have to live with it .but i am good fun and of course great to be with lol .
erinro Joined: Nov 13, '09 Status: Senior User	2010-02-01 15:35:17
	haha. this is so ironic. I'm a narcissist? Great! I love me!
kvlc Joined: Feb 2, '10 Status: New User	2010-02-02 06:14:50
	Why would you be unhappy about being a narcissist? It's not like the revelation that there's a word for your personality suddenly changes who you are.
kvlc Joined: Feb 2, '10 Status: New User	2010-02-02 07:06:22
	Why would you be unhappy about being a narcissist? It's not like the revelation that there's a word for your personality suddenly changes who you are.
bigsis Joined: Jan 20, '10 Status: New User	2010-02-02 08:15:21
	not that you should be unhappy about it, narcissists are pathologically happy about everything about themselves, so to get a diagnosis and be happy about (as opposed to neither) is ironic.
haart Joined: Oct 17, '09 Status: Senior User	2010-02-07 21:58:04
	"but i am good fun and of course great to be with lol." Wake up. No one could tolerate that s--- for more than an hour...except perhaps those who've just suffered a head injury.
underneath Joined: Feb 11, '10 Status: New User	2010-02-11 06:54:33
	oh I dont know, being happy with yourself even in dire times is good and can save a persons life. As for head injuries as long as they are not self inflicted in which case you need a different thread...
Melissa Williams Joined: Mar 5, '10 Status: New User	2010-03-05 19:02:16
	I just recently discovered that I might also have the condition due to an evaluation I had done on myself. For years I began to notice a weird problem in my family and a friend suggested NPD. I decided to look into it and every symptom pertained to someone in my family, including myself. My boyfriend has always pointed things out to me about my personality or something that I did that was abnormal. I wondered if that was the problem and everything pointed to the disorder. Lately, keeping good relationships with the other members of my family has been extremely difficult. I seriously believe that NPD is the cause of our disputes. Everyone wants the other to consider their own feelings and the stress leaves me stuck between a rock and a hard place. I wish that we could all come to terms, but nobody is willing to take the time to actually try. I'm very confused about all of it. Please write back and let me know if you have any suggestions or advice. Melissa.
jjyygirl Joined: Mar 5, '10 Status: New User	2010-03-06 15:42:43
	I....I...My english is poor... I just wanna to say...whether the disorder test is looking things too serious~~? I think a person with a little so called Narcissitic prone,is a cute~~happyness~~and most of them are very friendly person and easy to be with,beacuse they usually are funny one~~ The TEST also said me had a highly Narcisstic....but I dont think it's must be a "disorder".... I like myself,and like all the people surround me if he or she deserve,maybe i'm Narcisstic,but I respect all the other people at the same time,and I think I can accept other people's unique personalities rather than other guys,so I think myself and some of the other so called Narcisstics maybe are the people with a more healthy personalities~~
jjyygirl Joined: Mar 5, '10 Status: New User	2010-03-06 15:56:25
	self-confidence,never too much. Even if sometimes it looks like "Narcisstic" （¯﹃¯）
dgomez67 Joined: Oct 5, '09 Status: New User	2010-03-24 21:50:40
	I really think everyone looks into this too much. Suppose you really believe you have this disorder, why don't you have a professional evaluate you? If I had this concern, I certainly wouldn't be asking people on here.
Izard Joined: Apr 30, '10 Status: New User	2010-04-30 04:19:38
	Am a Narcissitic and i am happy with it. Am different from others narcissitic i think it has to be redefined
Hip Joined: Aug 10, '09 Status: Senior User	2010-04-30 04:31:17
	jiggygirl, your smiley has a zit.
LadyStardust Joined: Aug 20, '09 Status: Junior User	2010-05-16 13:10:51
	Just because you got "very-high" on the test doesn't mean you're a narcissist dumbass.
Derrick Joined: Mar 26, '10 Status: Senior User	2010-05-16 15:30:30
	Only a true narcissist would be pleased to be one. All other disorders see their characteristics and most do not want to change, but the Narcissist does not see the problem and truly thinks the only problem is that others do not see their genuine uniqueness. "Am a Narcissitic and i am happy with it. Am different from others narcissitic i think it has to be redefined" Narcissism is characterized by terminal uniqueness. And even then, only if Narcissism was the dominant of an amalgamation of disordered characteristics.
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