Crying out "Wolf"?

ireland Joined: May 1, '10 Status: Senior User	2010-09-11 07:45:46
	I have a neighbour that I have mentioned before,as I believe she has Histrionic traits. She tells silly lies,she displays her breasts,flirts and has stages of frequent male callers to her house. Some more serious lies she has told are that her estranged husband had fiddled with her young daughter.This was an attempt to get him beaten up by a third party. She has had our neighbours tyre slashed over a dispute over parking. Calls out Fire,Police and Abulance services to her house on a whim. She enjoys Coke,Cannabis,Alchohol and has been brought home on several occasions in a police car. She stalked her ex and then tried to get a restraining order against him when he finally attacked her. The last incident was a couple of weeks ago when she again caused a fuss in the early hours when brought home by police. She told a friend on face book that she had passed out in a club and had woken up naked with her clothes folded up next to her,she stated that she was raped. This week she went outside her house and told a young lad that was fixing his car,that she had been raped and she didnt want people to think that she had been done for drink driving. She is socially adept and works as a nurse in a local Health Center. The thing that is bothering me is that there may be a man out there that was stupid enough to have sex with her that night thinking it was fun and casual and will now have his life destroyed because the b---- is looking for attention and sympathy. I also find myself being wound up by her actions and it may result in me bowing my top and getting myself into trouble. Any opinion would be apreciated?x
Shia Joined: Sep 7, '10 Status: New User	2010-09-11 08:05:11
	I can understand why that would annoy you ^^, i would totally hate the b---- too.. (probably even more so cause i want the attention myself xp) i d say, try gathering evidence on her without doing anything illegal (if there is such a guy getting in trouble being innocent by example, she could be convicted of false accusations) just an example, but with her behavior, i can't imagine she isn't breaking any laws. it d probably be easy to tempt her into something illegal that promises to get her alot of attention and get her caught red-handed.. but that d be risky if u get caught manipulating the situation.. making a scandal out of her by getting the media involved might be possible, but she'd probably LOVE that... personally, i d probably introduce her with some pimp, her description seems like some1 who d be an easy target for those guys, then you can breathe easy and she can enjoy the attention she gets in a whorehouse.. *evil grin* tho u would need a connection to some1 in that line of 'work' first..
ireland Joined: May 1, '10 Status: Senior User	2010-09-11 09:33:34
	Shia-She does always manage to work her way just below the rule of law and never get caught. I wont participate in a game with her,she is not my child or my responsibility. Things have gone too far between us for me to help her now. I may only be able to lead by example,but first I need to set the right example.x
Shia Joined: Sep 7, '10 Status: New User	2010-09-11 09:42:13
	i totally wouldn't even consider helping her... unless such were to my advantage. She's the kind of woman i can't stand. "I wont participate in a game with her,she is not my child or my responsibility." true enough, you don't have to do anything about her, if u can keep up with having her around lol. fact is, i wouldn't be able to bear her presence for very long (i ve known a few girls with similar behavior and i always took it out on them..) so, i guess, if i were your neighbour, your other neighbour would mysteriously and suddenly dissappear someday xp mostly, ppl around such a person don't even care enough to report their disappearance. they re probably happy about it.
1_schizo_grl Joined: Mar 15, '10 Status: Senior User	2010-09-11 10:11:00
	Ireland How does a woman of this caliber, get a job as a nurse? I assume you mean cocaine. This stuff causes people to become highly aggressive, and I've been around many of them. If someone could report her to the health care unit, they could do blood tests, and she could lose her job. This woman exhibits Anti-Social behavior, from what I've studied. Is there a way you can avoid this woman, at all? Getting upset over this, is normal, and to be expected of anyone. Try your very best to maintain control, and avoid trouble. Yes, it's very difficult. Contact the man that became intimate with her, and explain her situation. Alcohol and weed are okay, if a person will stay home, and use it moderately. Call the police if she harrasses you, further.
ireland Joined: May 1, '10 Status: Senior User	2010-09-11 11:31:30
	What I wonder is how she hasnt come to terms to her own reality as a 30 yr old and a mother of a 5 yr old. I then partly find an explaination because she was adopted at 6 months old and the womwn that couldnt have her own children has treated her as a gift ever since. The woman has her house cleaned,ironing,washing and shopping,its all provided for her. She has fresh flowers displayed in the window for all to see,the hanging baskets are renewed and the garden weeded by her dad,who is on the parish council.x
Shia Joined: Sep 7, '10 Status: New User	2010-09-11 12:40:58
	hmm.. i m gonna stop reading this thread or i ll raid your place and drag her off sometime.. taku, can you get any more spoiled than that?
1_schizo_grl Joined: Mar 15, '10 Status: Senior User	2010-09-11 12:54:04
	Ireland I have a cousin just like the woman you posted about, and yes, this woman is just pampered and spoiled. Makes me sick ! Yes, that woman does not appreciate what she has, and is old enough to comes to terms with reality. She should do so, on account of those she has in her life, and especially, her child.
1_schizo_grl Joined: Mar 15, '10 Status: Senior User	2010-09-11 13:01:51
	Shia "She's the kind of woman I can't stand" Agreed.
ireland Joined: May 1, '10 Status: Senior User	2010-09-11 14:03:42
	Its been helpfull to offload about this woman,I cant avoid her as she lives 2 doors away. The 2 days a week that her parents aernt looking after her daughter for her are the days I have to see her in the playground at nursery school. I get defensive because my 4 yr old says hello to her and then the woman hangs back with her own daughter untill all other parents have gone. I dont want her near my child. She has previously bribed the children into her house with chocolate when her own child hasnt been there. If it was a man that was behaving as she does,he would have been sorted out by now. I know she will never change,I think I just need to help her on her way moving somewhere else and allow her to be someone elses problem,I feel for her daughter as she will unfortunately end up the same way. But then again I cant just do that,I need to do something for her child and I will. x
deblwk Joined: Sep 7, '10 Status: New User	2010-09-11 14:22:35
	I imagine the whole neighborhood going to turn against her soon *grin* The women will hate the frequent male callers and her attitude in general. :)
ireland Joined: May 1, '10 Status: Senior User	2010-09-11 14:40:39
	deblwk-they already do,I think its why she told the lad about the rape scenario,knowing it would get back to us and gain her some sympathy.x
deblwk Joined: Sep 7, '10 Status: New User	2010-09-11 15:02:33
	man she's good *grrrrrr* hopefully sympathy will only last so long!
1_schizo_grl Joined: Mar 15, '10 Status: Senior User	2010-09-11 15:20:47
	Yeah, sympathy can only last so long, then people become wise ! Ireland, what causes a person to crave attention? I'm unable to relate.
Shia Joined: Sep 7, '10 Status: New User	2010-09-11 17:17:05
	*coughs, i m not here still- its either not getting enough attention or getting too much attention during youth. the former they ll do anything for ppl to stop ignoring them. (generally : class clown.) the latter turns out arrogant and thinks everything is about them(obviously her case) or you might just have been born with a personality that craves to get attention. happens, its a normal human trait, some just feel it more than others.
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