Thread Topic: Personal Trouble
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darklust
Joined: Nov 9, '09
Status: New User |
2009-11-10 11:21:29 |
| Ok. well my girlfriend used to cut herself whenever we broke up. but she stopped when we got back together, but the main reason i went back out with her in the first place was because i hated when she cut herself and she started talking about commiting suicide. I love her, but it seems like whenever we start going out. we seem to grow farther part.so i just want to stay friends, but i'm afraid that if i breakup with her she will start cutting and wanting suicide again..... HELP! | |
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Unanswered Thread: So which razor/blade posted by Hip 12 hours ago |
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Jeanine
Joined: Nov 2, '09
Status: New User |
2009-11-10 20:26:42 |
| Dnt you feel trapped? Ask sm1 at a clinic what to do. Its not fair towards you.dnt tell her. | |
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Havoca13
Joined: Nov 24, '09
Status: New User |
2009-11-24 19:32:27 |
| For sure talk to someone at a clinic, but what you can also try is something like a reward system with her. For example: When she cuts you will take her in to someone, or you won't hang out with her. And then when she doesn't cut, you two get to hang out as friends. | |
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shades of gray
Joined: Oct 23, '09
Status: Junior User |
2009-11-26 08:00:05 |
| my friends did the reward thing to me. it deffinatly worked. the reson shell be doin it is for attention, cus its her way off gettin you back. the more you go back the worse itll get. if you let her know it wont get her any attention she will stop. trust me. i did that without knowing itt | |
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