trying to figure things out

Casualties116 Joined: Oct 26, '09 Status: New User	2009-10-26 10:23:19
	hello everyone. i guess i always knew i am extremely dependent, it just took me some thinking and that test to really figure things out. i am 20 years old, and a guy. i don't know if its rare for a man to be dependent, or if there's others like me. i been out of a relationship for 2 years now, my ex cheated on me, i even apologized to her if it was anything i did. i do that a lot, say im sorry for anything i may have done, even if its not needed. i find my self to be extremely lonely now, and for the past 2 years. longing for some one to hold in my arms, for recurrences that im not alone in this cold world. im one of those nice guys, even had girls say i should "grow a pare of balls" but its just not me you know. i will always the nice guy, getting in the "friend zone" with every girl i like. lately its been killing me, making me angry because i have no one. and seeing all of my friends and family in happy relationships, then seeing me lonely, with out anyone. its like a vurse from one of my favorite songs that goes, "this loneliness is killing me, its filling me with anger and resentment". if there are any other nice guys or nice girls out there please feel free to give advice or to just vent.
Unanswered Thread:    VRIELLIS PLEASE READ posted by Synapse 13 days ago
eslay Joined: Oct 26, '09 Status: New User	2009-10-26 12:46:05
	i as well always apologize for things i didn't cause or didn't mean to cause. i know exactly how you feel. sadly i got caught up with a girl who was also too dependent. two dependent people together didn't work well. don't find a dependent girl to get with. you'll be with her a long time, but in the end it will ruin your life with how much you miss in the between. after two years with her i have no best friends anymore and none of those girls even in the "friend" zone because they weren't allowed to call me/text me/AIM me/facebook me while i was with her. count your bblessings, count what you have. if you have to, get dependent on music and wait for the dependency to fade. good luck, and if your name is the band, the casualties are a great band.
Casualties116 Joined: Oct 26, '09 Status: New User	2009-10-26 13:26:11
	thank you, and yes the casualties are a grate band =3
Unanswered Thread:    OCD Bracelet Fund Raiser posted by vbaz 34 days ago

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