Where's my former glory?

goatboykjd Joined: Nov 4, '10 Status: New User	2010-11-04 12:07:43
	Bonjour, I'm a little embraced to be writing on here, not because of any ill found opinion that i'm better than it, but because i've read a few stories on here and i feel my problems may seem silly. however i'm aware our problems are always big to ourselves. My post is really to ask how do i regain my lost confidence? I feel since my familt moved away from our home, i stayed due to a relationship, and then when that relationship broke down due to none impressive reasons other than growing up. i developed a wee bit of an abandonment problems (this has always been my own diagnosis), since then i have found it very hard to instigate contact with others i may wish to peruse. Eventually i moved away to start a fresh. it worked i was confident in my new environment and getting on with my life. However after a relationship ended, and it had been an intense relationship with a girl who was bipolar and clinically depressed. i again lost my mojo or confidence. My feelings have always been that this relationship was so arduous that keeping the relationship together was the primary focus so i became more and more submissive due to not wanting to upset someone i loved. This has effected me since and feel that within a relationship i am very submissive and may very well choke the good vibrations out of the "honeymoon period". basically recently i never get past that. Is there any way this seems silly and easy to fix. i am a very nice person who cares about people and whats going on in the worlds but feel pulled back by my desire for love. Peace.
1_schizo_grl Joined: Mar 15, '10 Status: Senior User	2010-11-05 15:45:14
	"how do I regain my lost confidence?" Has someone hurt you, emotionally ?
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