It's soo hard to make decisions!

Ely Joined: Feb 7, '10 Status: New User	2010-02-08 20:55:30
	And you're a new user? Seems like you've been on this a looot longer :/ lol. And yes, I've learned that it's better to 'express than to supress' when i was 11. I only express to people online though, which may not be the best. Up until now I have depended on a 'friend' to help me out when I'm 'lost' (for lack of a better term...) but i've met him online in a chat room. He's been supportive but now he's really busy and is going to be a senior next year- then leaving for the navy in the year after that. I don't want to be a burden to him. School is more important that talking to me,so should i stop telling him about myself and asking for help/advice from him? I've been doing this for 4 years. I've gotten clingy which is also not good. MAybe it's about time to move on and force myself to let go...? What does it take to become independant. Actually- what's your definition of independence?
aernum Joined: Feb 4, '10 Status: New User	2010-02-08 21:20:00
	"And you're a new user? Seems like you've been on this a looot longer :/" could you elaborate as i see is it about how long a person been into something? its like a argument about age... independence i see its something that people who search it can never find but who does understand what is it would do... sorry i got really wierd thinking is it something like standing on your own yes probably being independent yet if you dont understand why your standing on your own wont complete being independent other than that everyone has voice of opinion on what independence is am i right? again is being independent means your not dependent i think not for we cannot really stop depending on something "What does it take to become independant" a question one must answer on his own i think but if i do say that then your gonna tell me that i dont know whats the real meaning of independence then and im such a idiot for not answering your question directly but im not really sure well independence is something i must search more in order to attain i think for i myself thinks im not really independent really so much i suppose am i sorry my mind is pretty cloudy with ideas
xnx Joined: Sep 6, '10 Status: New User	2010-09-06 20:20:15
	hi..aernum..so u think independence is our chioce..but what if i feel it from bad side like i stay alone most times ..i try to have my own idea's so that no body can effect my chioce.. i have a problem now trying to slove but it always seems more harder..i finished school and now i am finding it so confusiong to choose a major ana so that a university ..every body is tired from my ideas bcz i never reached a suitbale one in a place ..am tired and depressed to ..now im btwn two choises either to get in one of z university's in a certian major and am ready for admission for it soon..but nt really fiting my personality type..i am thinking of future alot..and im still hesitating .. the next year i may change..but what about z years that follow ?!
xnx Joined: Sep 6, '10 Status: New User	2010-09-06 20:21:43
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