Just got back from hospital

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alone
Joined: Nov 2, '09
Status: New User
2009-11-07 13:42:43
ok so i just got back from the hospital my mom caught me cutting! fml. anyway, she way overreacted and took me to the hospital, they say i have deppresion and bpd, she also noticed i pierced my ear cartliage, about a month ago. i now ahve therapy once a week, and my mom read ALL my emails so she know about my friend who cuts also, she told her mom. i have NO independance anymore......i have a great life.
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   my test results posted by darron46 16 hours ago
alone
Joined: Nov 2, '09
Status: New User
2009-11-07 13:54:20
and im only thirteen, really, my life already sucks, at THIRTEEN! so not fair
Fatality
Joined: Jul 14, '09
Status: Senior User
2009-11-07 14:00:21
You can still find your independance, when you email, just delete your inbox and sentbox each time.
If you HAVE to cut, do it a place no-one can see, but not doing it at all is best :P
fantasy
Joined: Jul 28, '09
Status: Senior User
2009-11-08 19:51:38
I agree with Fatality about cutting, try not to do it but if you really have to, cut in places people won't see.

As for your email, why don't you just make a new email account that she doesn't know about?

I'm sorry that you have such problems at 13 :( 13 is an age hard enough to deal with as it is without serious mental problems as well. But don't lose hope in yourself, no matter how hard it gets!
elisafauzana
Joined: Aug 27, '09
Status: Senior User
2009-11-08 19:52:41
that's a better idea. a new undisclosed email account.
alone
Joined: Nov 2, '09
Status: Junior User
2009-11-09 12:09:27
it doesent matter that much about the email because my laptop is taken away, im on the comp at school, the thing is, mom follows me everwhere now, i mean everywhere. if she doesn't stop im going to start cutting at school, the only place i can, if i get caught i get expelled, she doesn't get shes making things worse.
hopscotch
Joined: Sep 8, '09
Status: Junior User
2009-11-09 20:01:39
maybe talk to her, tell her you need space and shes smothering you. do it as calmly as possible.
AussieGal
Joined: Oct 24, '09
Status: New User
2009-11-10 03:52:14
Alone, talk to your Mum. I've read alot of posts on here and your Mum sounds like she cares and loves you - thats why she's looking out for you. You're young now, one day you'll be a Mum and you'll know what it's like to love and care for your children. Dont cut. it doesnt solve anything. Talk to her, talk to a friend, a counsellor. There is no reason to cut. It is not logical, causes scars and does not help at all. I wish you alot of love. You're a young girl with the world at your feet. You can be anything you want to be.... you can have anything you want. Everything is there for the taking, you just have to decide what you want..... DREAM BIG
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