i dont know what to do..

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hopscotch
Joined: Sep 8, '09
Status: Junior User
2009-11-06 17:53:48
my new school councillor found out i cut and told my mum...
mum is trying to be supportive but she really doesnt understand, even when i try to explain, and now i have gone into that really numb state of mind, with no feelings ect.
im really worried that mum is going to blame herself, or is already. i dont want her sad, but i wake up in the middle of the night and here her crying.
but still i cant stop cutting...
any suggestions on what to do?
Unanswered Thread:
   No Subject posted by alwaysknew 4 hours ago
Fatality
Joined: Jul 14, '09
Status: Senior User
2009-11-06 18:01:27
Be honest. From the start, tell her everything. She seems the type that wouldn't get angry at you :)
Delirius
Joined: Nov 3, '09
Status: New User
2009-11-06 18:03:19
Yea your lucky to have a mom that actually gives a s---
elisafauzana
Joined: Aug 27, '09
Status: Senior User
2009-11-06 21:32:55
tell your mum, why u cut. n tell her that u will try to stop but u need time. tell her how u would feel if u you don't. tell her it is nothing to do with her(if it's really mothing to do with her)so that she won't blame herself. i know that numb state of mind. u just go blank. but just try to collect yourself to do it. good luck
hopscotch
Joined: Sep 8, '09
Status: Junior User
2009-11-08 21:48:47
thanks for the help, but i still find it really hard to talk to her about it. i hate it cuz the whole time she just stares at me and i get really paranoid.. i hate staring...
i havnt cut since iv talked to her.. not quite sure why but im getting the whole depression thing going again..
all my friends are like 'whats wrong, i know theres something wrong' but there isnt, its just that i havnt cut in 5 days and the just wouldnt understand..
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   Nothing wrong with paranoia. posted by IntroduckToni 2 days ago
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