are girls more susceptable to cutting than guys?

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Delirius
Joined: Nov 3, '09
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2009-11-06 10:39:06
I know way more girls that do than guys
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   VRIELLIS PLEASE READ posted by Synapse 13 days ago
shades of gray
Joined: Oct 23, '09
Status: Junior User
2009-11-06 11:40:09
I know a lot of girls that do it for emotnal resons, but guys that do it for " fun" as they pit it, that I don't understand. Gay guys seem to do it more, and with girls it seems to be bi or lessbians ... Wired
xxx
shades of gray
Joined: Oct 23, '09
Status: Junior User
2009-11-06 11:40:41
Sorry ment lesbians haha
xxx
Delirius
Joined: Nov 3, '09
Status: New User
2009-11-06 11:55:36
I understand and yea i thought so too, hmm that is weird
shades of gray
Joined: Oct 23, '09
Status: Junior User
2009-11-06 12:06:37
Lol,
and okai then why do they do it for fun?
Xx
Fatality
Joined: Jul 14, '09
Status: Senior User
2009-11-06 12:16:16
A lot of the females i know/know of are the types that just do it because they think its the fashion. Ignoring that, i agree, more girls seem to do it than guys o.0
shades of gray
Joined: Oct 23, '09
Status: Junior User
2009-11-06 12:27:42
Why would you put ignore that? Haha it's a valid point.

I hate people like that xx
Fatality
Joined: Jul 14, '09
Status: Senior User
2009-11-06 12:32:01
Because those that do it for fashion are just plainly pathetic tbh, and bring bad names to people like you, me and the rest on this board that do it for legit reasons :\
nicotine_fiend
Joined: Oct 2, '09
Status: Junior User
2009-11-06 15:04:35
well, being a lesbian cutter i will tell you why i do it. i don't cry practically ever. i don't like people seeing the vulnerable side of me so i've learned to repress my emotions. and cutting is a perfect way to let out my frustrations, and my pain without actually crying. sometimes i just feel like i'm going to explode whether its sadness, anger, jealousy etc. and i cut. all over my legs. i always wear pants so no one figures it out and because i can repress my feelings so well i go back to being my (somewhat) happy self. i've become a master at faking my happiness and no one is the wiser. i know i don't do it because its the "fashionable" thing to do because if anyone ever found out i'd be mortified. like, me and my girlfriend of 2 years just broke up and i had curbed my cutting for a long time because i didn't want to have to explain myself to anyone. although cutting keeps me sane because slowly but surely i have unravelled over the past few years. i'm gonna say i've been back to cutting for the past few months while me and my girlfriend were living in seperate houses but now that we have broken up its just immensely worse. i have never had to go to the hospital or anything (for the afformentioned fear of people finding out), but i draw quite a bit of blood. and my legs get all shaky. but i think its a good feeling kind of. like, its what sets me apart from everyone else i know. it makes me feel real.
Synapse
Joined: Oct 24, '09
Status: Junior User
2009-11-06 15:13:23
guys tend to be more successful at suicide than girls, who choose less violent methods and seek attention more
shades of gray
Joined: Oct 23, '09
Status: Junior User
2009-11-07 05:57:23
Is that good thoe synapse?
shades of gray
Joined: Oct 23, '09
Status: Junior User
2009-11-07 05:59:39
M a lesbian cutter too, I know bpd has nothing to do with sexualty, well don't think it dose, but there's so many lesbians on this site.
Xxx
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