Thread Topic: lets have some positive and negative thinking
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stephie
Joined: Oct 15, '09
Status: Junior User |
2009-11-05 09:32:16 |
| hey guy. I have met some lovely people on this site and i hope it continues. I'm having a positive day today from alevel 1 being good to a level 5 as bad. i'm between a level 1 and 3 in that i'm positive about life but negative what if i fail. its a strange topic. cos you feel one thing then think another. Positive and negative collide together. Any other thoughts or problems you would like to share? xxxxx | |
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Delirius
Joined: Nov 3, '09
Status: New User |
2009-11-05 09:34:41 |
| Im always both a 5 and a 1 at the same time, its weird i always have the happy go lucky person on display so even me being myself i feel happy but when i start to think about anything i know its a false happiness and i realize how depressed i really am | |
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Fatality
Joined: Jul 14, '09
Status: Senior User |
2009-11-05 09:36:43 |
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For me it depends on the situation. If my friends have a problem, i'm the most optimistic guy on earth, and you won't stop me helping you no matter. If the problem is me, its just hopeless. I look at life in a pessimistic way, but only in ways that make others laugh apparently :S I still don't know if thats a good or bad thing lol. |
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fantasy
Joined: Jul 28, '09
Status: Junior User |
2009-11-05 09:45:15 |
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hmm hard to judge my emotions. For one thing, I keep oscillating between millions of different shades of emotions, also I change easily, one moment I'll be happy and perky, then I'll be all pessimistic and suicidal lol this was the first reason I came to this bpd forum. I usually don't have 2 strong emotions at the same time, but I get lots of different variations of one, like types of sad or types of nervous or yeah you know what I mean... I don't know if you do, it doesn't make sense to me if I read it. It's just the feeling, I can't describe. Fatality, I'm so glad that you aren't annoyed at me o.O cuz I hate it when I have to comfort someone all the time and all they talk about is themselves and THEIR problems and how pitiful they are and they never cheer up no matter what I say, and it's clear they don't care about anyone but themselves. I don't want to be a person like that. :( |
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Fatality
Joined: Jul 14, '09
Status: Senior User |
2009-11-05 09:47:34 |
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I quote myself "and you won't stop me helping no matter" Srsly, making people smile/laugh/happy makes me feel better in myself, so when i say i don't mind, i don't mind ok? :) |
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Delirius
Joined: Nov 3, '09
Status: New User |
2009-11-05 09:55:13 |
| I love making people laugh too, when people laugh at my jokes that is what really makes me happy and keeps me from doing anything to hurt myself | |
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fantasy
Joined: Jul 28, '09
Status: Junior User |
2009-11-05 10:32:06 |
| Well a person I know hates (seriously hates) whiners and mopers. She thinks it's selfish, weak, and annoying/frustrating for others. She doesn't know I'm a whiner/moper yet :p | |
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stephie
Joined: Oct 15, '09
Status: Junior User |
2009-11-05 10:38:17 |
| awww bless you guys. Sum of my friends like that. So i try and be overly happy and im always the up and goer kind of person. But it does depend wot mood i'm in. grrr! just going to eat now.xxx | |
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fantasy
Joined: Jul 28, '09
Status: Junior User |
2009-11-05 12:54:09 |
| Yeah I use to pretend to be happy too but it's too much of an effort for me now, and they never appreciate it anyway. Imo it's not worth all the energy just so you can fool other people that you have friends. Btw this only applies to me, idk about you guys | |
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racyandy
Joined: Oct 23, '09
Status: Junior User |
2009-11-05 15:52:41 |
| Good topic Stephie,This is what Cognative therapy is about. Generally for me, how I think is my biggest problem, my first thought is usually wrong, this committee in my head tells me lies, like, I'm not good enough, ot that I'll fail, or maybe that everyone is thinking bad things about me, (not litterally voices, more like negtive self-talk) Thats is why havin a support system of people to talk to is important for me. Whenever I have a bright idea I try to run it by someone who is in my support system, that is why it is important to have healthy people in my support system. | |
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racyandy
Joined: Oct 23, '09
Status: Junior User |
2009-11-05 15:59:26 |
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Stephie, being afraid that you will fail is normal, but what would be the worst thing that could happen if you failed at something? Life is all a learning experience, everyone has problems, I think more sucessful people get in the solution faster, not stay stuck in the problem, or a mulitple of problems. Positive thinking helps me get into the solution faster. |
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Delirius
Joined: Nov 3, '09
Status: New User |
2009-11-05 16:01:31 |
| Ill answer that, worst thing that could happen is you could die | |
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Fatality
Joined: Jul 14, '09
Status: Senior User |
2009-11-05 16:04:08 |
| Or srsly injured, depending on which angle you view from o.0 | |
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racyandy
Joined: Oct 23, '09
Status: Junior User |
2009-11-05 16:16:28 |
| From self-harm u mean? | |
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Fatality
Joined: Jul 14, '09
Status: Senior User |
2009-11-06 09:15:04 |
| Anything, that, an accident, anything really lol. I'm just nit-picking so just ignore me xD | |
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