Thread Topic: Welcome to the Borderline Forum
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weeza29745
Joined: May 17, '09
Status: New User |
2009-05-23 15:37:22 |
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d Outcast: It helps me a lot to just... Cry. The majority of my anger, I've learned to turn into sadness, now it happens naturally (I know, it's weird, but, hey, aren't we all?). I do cry a lot, and I read somewhere that BPD peeps have "emotional hemophilia", like, if they are emotionally hurt, they don't stop hurting... I feel that way, which is why I can always cry. Yelling, crying, screaming, they help. Tell me, are you someone who prefers to cry alone (like, you don't like people to touch you when you cry or see you at all) or are you like me and like to have someone to cry on? If you do have someone to cry on, they may not understand why you're crying, so, be prepared if they ask you what's wrong... Most of the time, I say "I don't know." or I just cry harder. Hey, it works for me. I hope I helped! My cousin, her advice was to let it go... She was molested as a child and she cut herself and went a little bit crazy... Then she started talking it out and she let it go and now she's perfectly happy with how she's turned out, very productive girl. She let all her anger and hatred for her aunt (who molested her) go... And she moved on. nicole222: Were you put on medication? How long have you been seeing professional help? Has it been consistent? Have a good day, hang in there. |
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Unanswered Thread: What to do?! posted by Jeanine 5 hours ago |
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d_Outkast
Joined: May 17, '09
Status: New User |
2009-05-25 05:20:35 |
| weeza: I'm a loner cried. I don't like to let others see/hear me cry, it makes me feel weak... and vulnerable. | |
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usedtobehappy
Joined: May 25, '09
Status: New User |
2009-05-25 10:28:23 |
| I think my partner may be BPD. I also think he uses "projection" on me, i.e. accuses me of his own failings. Are these two linked? | |
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weeza29745
Joined: May 17, '09
Status: New User |
2009-05-25 14:17:50 |
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d Outcast: Try not to let it! Crying is proof that you have emotions... Does it help to cry alone then? With no one around, it may help you think. I don't know. I'm trying as best I can. usedtobehappy: I think it may be... I searched it and came up with this. Tell me if it helps at all. [no urls]?q=Are+projection+and+BPD+linked%3F&page=1&qsrc=0&ab=0&u=http%3A%2F%2F[no urls]%2Fmen%2Fpage20.html |
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brokenwings3
Joined: May 18, '09
Status: New User |
2009-05-26 18:42:47 |
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Thanks everyone! I really appreciate everything you guys have wrote to me! I am so going to my therapist soon, and I am going to make a change! =). I will write back and let you guys know how everything works out =). I realized that God was on my side and wants me to be happy, and so do you guys and my family and friends. I love you all! God bless! And you guys can do it too =). And just a little side comment: If you are in a crappy mood, listen to music! =). My favorite is broken wings by flyleaf =). |
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weeza29745
Joined: May 17, '09
Status: New User |
2009-05-27 13:56:55 |
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brokenwings3: I'm happy for you and glad we could offer guidance. I'm proud of you for turning your life around... I pray it's successful. God always shows us the way, we just can't always see it. Take care. |
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lizzy
Joined: May 27, '09
Status: New User |
2009-05-27 14:13:28 |
| i scored very high in the borderline to. i'm only 15 ... since i was raped when i was 13 i find myself always thinking of killing myself. i have a boyfriend at the moment and i really want things to work i just cant trust him and i always do little tests on him and mess around with his head but i dont meen to i dont no what to do i just want to be happy. iv'e ran away from home alot and recently been expelled from school because i had a reputation for being loud and i just wanted to get on with my work but i felt like i had to live up to my reputation so i always ust to go mental now i can't stop getting angry and loosing my temper i always feel paranoid and im scared of sleeping with my boyfriend incase he doesnt like my body. | |
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lizzy
Joined: May 27, '09
Status: New User |
2009-05-27 14:29:07 |
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i also get visions of killing others aswell ... and i often lie to my boyfriend ... i dont no what to do im so unhappy. when i talk to my parents about it they laugh. i have had alot of counsiling but its not working and i have been to the clinic to see if i have a chemical inbalance but it was normal. ?????? plese help me someone |
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badfish7
Joined: May 15, '09
Status: New User |
2009-05-27 23:26:04 |
| i posted earlier. my post is on page too. Badfish7. I just got back from out of town. And honestly. I do have some personality disorders. Such as i dont think im very pretty. and i hate my body. And i was to the point to were i was super lazy and didnt want to do anything. I went out of town. stayed with one of my friends. and her house was a mess. 24/7. it was horrible. it made me realise how good i have it. now im much more confident about my self. and damn i look good. lol. | |
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BlackBallet
Joined: May 24, '09
Status: New User |
2009-05-28 10:03:46 |
| lizzy: You're story sounds alot like mine. I scored very high on BPD as well as schizotypal and schizoid, and I'm only 15, I was...abused when I was 8, and I've had these kind of thoughts, but my doctor said he can't do anything, I feel really sick and I cant do anything, I need help but I can't talk to anyone about it because I'm afraid they'll think I'm crazy. | |
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weeza29745
Joined: May 17, '09
Status: New User |
2009-05-28 16:09:10 |
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lizzy and BlackBallet: You can talk to us! I assure you, there will always be an open ear here. I'm so sorry about what's happened to you guys. Nothing can erase the past, but we can make a better future. Right? We'll make it. badfish7: I'm happy for you! Keep up the positive thinking! |
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2ndplan
Joined: May 28, '09
Status: New User |
2009-05-28 19:48:53 |
| I'm on the verge of losing my boyfriend for 10yrs...someone who has tolerated my anger and impulsive outbursts forever. I'm finally willing to accept that I have a BPD and that the world isn't against me...I just want to know how to control my rage before I lose what is most important to me. | |
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BlackBallet
Joined: May 24, '09
Status: New User |
2009-05-29 07:15:16 |
| weeza: Thanx for the support! It's nice to have people to talk to. I might have had a bad past, but that just means the future cant be much worse! | |
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theforgotten
Joined: May 30, '09
Status: New User |
2009-05-30 04:15:32 |
| I'm 14.. and i have been suffering from depression for about three years. funny huh? since im so young.. everyone says it's a stupid phase. my mom said it was because i was pmsing, yeah sure. pmsing doesn't make me do self-harm all over the back of neck and wrists. she doesn't believe me that there is something wrong with me. i think BPD describes how i am very well because i have major mood swings, one minute im happy the next im mad, then i get angry at random people for no reason and i sometimes trash my room.. i just don't know what to do anymore. i lost hope. | |
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Pandemonium
Joined: May 30, '09
Status: New User |
2009-05-30 05:05:46 |
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theforgotten: I have also lost hope. I over-complicate things and my moods fluctuate. I'm so lost. So lost. |
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