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fantasy Joined: Jul 28, '09 Status: Junior User	2009-09-09 13:23:59
	I know this sounds lame but you people are so nice here, you're more real than my "real" "friends" to me, this is the first time I've found people who don't judge me and call me "stupid emo" just because of what I do. On every other forum I've posted, people think I'm just trolling, trying to get attention, cutting to be "cool", and they all responded to my pleas for help with sarcasm, immature jokes about emo grass, "go kill yourself then, good riddance" comments, etc. they always made me feel terrible and I'd always withdraw into myself and be worse. But here no one does that mean stuff, you're all so understanding and accepting to me and one another. I don't feel stupid or awkward here, I feel accepted. I guess the point of this is to say how much I appreciate your niceness. You don't know how much you've helped me. Thank you!
Fatality Joined: Jul 14, '09 Status: Junior User	2009-09-09 14:10:23
	Hey that didn't sound lame at all. I tried to explain how i felt to IRL people (no-one professional) and no-one got what i meant, some even laughed. But i found these forums and thought "theres people who seem to be the same as me, and even explain it better!" And knowing that made me feel slightly better on its own. So i second this, apart from the first five words :)
Hip Joined: Aug 10, '09 Status: Junior User	2009-09-09 14:17:23
	I wish my grass was emo so it would cut itself! xD
Fatality Joined: Jul 14, '09 Status: Junior User	2009-09-09 14:19:59
	claps Hip for the good-ole joke no-one has EVER heard before :p
kez Joined: Sep 9, '09 Status: New User	2009-09-09 14:39:28
	Well I had never heard it before and i laughed, shows how much i go out i suppose! I'm really happy these forums are here also. Is anyone here from New Zealand?
Fatality Joined: Jul 14, '09 Status: Junior User	2009-09-09 14:42:27
	I'm from the UK here, but i've always wanted to visit either NZ or Australia. Not sure why :p
hopscotch Joined: Sep 8, '09 Status: New User	2009-09-09 16:50:33
	yer i agree, you guys are always so kind and helpful.. im in Australia.. really great place i guess.. and no we dont go to school riding kangaroos.. lol yeyr even though i havnt been here long i really feel accepted.. like i belong :)
fantasy Joined: Jul 28, '09 Status: Junior User	2009-09-09 22:34:38
	California here .. >.> but im not really American so its okay. I don't really have a country :D I would love to go to Australia.. the few aussies I met online told me great jokes and literally made me lol at the computer, and I don't do that a lot usually. I've never talked to people from UK :O do you have a british accent? no offense, although I don't know why that should be offending...
Fatality Joined: Jul 14, '09 Status: Junior User	2009-09-09 23:50:29
	Yes i have a british accent. Though most of us here don't have the stereotypical posh one. Honestly i think it would be cool to have it though xD But right now i sound retarded cause i have a cold >.
elisafauzana Joined: Aug 27, '09 Status: Junior User	2009-09-10 00:27:31
	hi u guys.. it feels warm to have u guys around. before this i thought i am just stupid to have done everything that i have done. but via reading all u guys' stories and getting advises from all, i feel more confident to get myself to move on with my life more cautiously rather than wallowing in guilt and sadness. btw, i am from malaysia. nice to know where u guys are from. fantasy, it's really cool for u to have started this "i think you are all so nice" thread. two thumbs up.
kez Joined: Sep 9, '09 Status: New User	2009-09-10 01:51:01
	thats awesome elis:) hope everyone is having a nice Ramadan around you. i know what you mean fantasy about not having a country. we switched countries when i was young and i was confused about my roots for a long time. now i feel like a total kiwi, but i realise i talk too much and have too many emotions near the surface to be a typical one:)
fantasy Joined: Jul 28, '09 Status: Junior User	2009-09-10 17:58:00
	kez, yeah I came to US when I was around 10, it sucks for me right now because when I speak English I have an Asian accent but I speak my native language with an american accent .. -.- I don't belong anywhere. Oh well I'll just be my own one-man country. It's still nice that you feel "totally kiwi".. xD I ate some kiwis before this and it made me laugh, no offense. you're a special kiwi :D And thanks for the thumbs up elisa.. just wanted to let you guys know how much you mean to me. :D
elisafauzana Joined: Aug 27, '09 Status: Junior User	2009-09-10 18:06:38
	well, fantasy, i am asian too, going to migrate to canada soon. my son speaks english with asian accent too and he's going to 7 now. so i guess my son will resemble u..:) but, hey, it's real cute to speak english in a difrent accent. like in hollywood movies, usually there'll be italian or spanish accent speaking fellows and i find them real cute talking that way..
elisafauzana Joined: Aug 27, '09 Status: Junior User	2009-09-10 18:14:48
	thanks, kez. we have finished 20 fasting days. another 10 to go and will be having Eid celebration.
fantasy Joined: Jul 28, '09 Status: Junior User	2009-09-10 18:18:44
	elisa: The main problem for me is not that I have an accent - I don't mind that - but that I cannot speak ANY language fluently. Makes me a little sad :( but thanks for what you said. What part of Asia are you from?
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