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epiphany
Joined: Dec 24, '09
Status: Junior User
2010-06-19 23:54:11
darren hayes, stephen gately etc. why?

what is your opinion about gays? if you are gay yourself, i would like to know what made you a gay?

epiphany
Joined: Dec 24, '09
Status: Junior User
2010-06-19 23:55:55
sorry. my first question was why handsome guys become gays. didn't realise i left it.
purplerain
Joined: Jun 3, '10
Status: Junior User
2010-06-20 01:01:21
I"m not gay but i have had gay friends in the past i guess they just choose to be that way.
pennylane666
Joined: Jun 10, '10
Status: New User
2010-06-20 01:18:03
Hi, well I'm bisexual and maybe you were just asking the guys about this one, but maybe my answer can help (or not): when I realized I liked both, same and opposite sexed people was when I startedd seeing people as, well, people, human beings not just genders and genitals. When I'm attracted to someone I feel it towards their soul, their personality (broken or not), their compatibility with me.

About the handsome thing, well that just must be your luck, being attracted to guys that happen to be gay...
Kastrian
Joined: Jun 4, '10
Status: Junior User
2010-06-20 14:56:56
People are born gay, it has nothing to do with the way they look and if they played with dolls if they were a boy. It's in their genes they have no choice but to be who they are made up in there genes to be. A lot of men hide it but usually the truth comes out.

Kas xx
aliveandunwell
Joined: Oct 27, '09
Status: Junior User
2010-06-20 17:51:19
Penny...Im bisexual as well and i couldnt agree with you more humans are humans and its just more about a connection. But completely gay people are born that way and they might not act on it for a long time bc they want to make others happy or fit gender roles our society has constructed, but theyre just attracted to men if theyre men and women if theyre women. things dont make people gay its just who they are. epiphany...it is weird that very attractive guys are gay. no theory about why that is. sorry
aca6
Joined: Dec 19, '09
Status: Senior User
2010-06-20 18:47:50
Well if the guy is gay at least there's a chance to make him bisexual. :P
Zeppelin25
Joined: Jun 17, '10
Status: New User
2010-06-21 09:43:00
i believe that you dont choose to be gay just like heterosexuals dont choose to be straight. its just who you are. youre born that way. thats just my opinion
aca6
Joined: Dec 19, '09
Status: Senior User
2010-06-21 10:45:13
Anyone heard of that old fable of how originally humans were each connected to each other, some to the opposite sex and others to the same? Supposedly there is only one person you will feel truly connected to and you'll end up searching for that person for the rest of your life just because some god got angry and separated the soul mates.

IDK, it just came to my mind. ^^^
satan
Joined: Feb 14, '10
Status: Junior User
2010-06-21 13:57:17
more men choose to be gays because they has no more respect and interest in women. plus they can't stand nagging. :P
aca6
Joined: Dec 19, '09
Status: Senior User
2010-06-23 15:21:48
That's such a stereotype, I hear plenty of men nag all the time. :P
purplerain
Joined: Jun 3, '10
Status: Junior User
2010-06-23 17:39:07
i had a friend that was married to a woman for 20 years and had to kids by her and then he got a divorce and decided he was gay.
CosmoAwesmo
Joined: Jun 20, '10
Status: New User
2010-06-23 17:47:13
Hahaha. You dumb f---, homosexuality is not a conscious decision. Go back to Iowa, please.
Ladyboy25
Joined: Jun 21, '10
Status: New User
2010-06-23 18:41:09
I'm not for homosexuality because of my religious beliefs, but I'm not ready to condemn them and treat them as less than legitimate human beings.
4yrsingaylove
Joined: Jun 24, '10
Status: New User
2010-06-24 22:13:37
now i have a new answer for u and as u can telll by my username i am gay(well lesbian technoally). In fact me and my partner have been togther four yrs. I beleive that gay and straight is a thin line. Based on ur past lifes,soul mate, and more than anything he u fall in love with first. I had a couple bfs before her but she changed my world. Now maybe not true for everbody, however, i beleive its about who treats u better boys or girls. And who soul mate is met to be. Who u truly fall in love with first.
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