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Egh
Joined: Sep 27, '09
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2009-09-27 17:55:24 |
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Babe, its ok for someone to like you. So what if you’re not the best person (people?) ever, it doesn’t matter. Everyone has at least one person who likes them, even if they are the biggest a--hole of all time. From what you’ve said, you’re not the biggest a--hole of all time. And, you’ve got some kindness, if you did not have any, you would have told me it’s my fault and that I deserve people to ask me and make me feel bad. But you didn’t, you helped me think of things to say. Actually, more like told me, my idea was pretty stupid. I’m not asking you to be my best friend; I’m just telling you that I like you. Accept it as a compliment and say thank you. |
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Unanswered Thread: What to do?! posted by Jeanine 2 hours ago |
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Cinerhpozihcs
Joined: Sep 27, '09
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2009-09-27 18:06:15 |
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Ehh . . . Let's all pretend I didn't say any of that. I'm not completely sane, as you may have guessed, and that was just a little "outburst" of--Whatever. Yes, you're right, Egh, and I'm sorry to have said that. Thank you for the compliment. :D |
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So_Confused
Joined: Sep 27, '09
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2009-09-27 18:10:28 |
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Hey... Im kinda new to the whole cutting yourself thing. ive thought about it for ages because i really need a way to get rid of all my troubles =[ i just want to know whats the best way to do it the first time ? and what to use ? how deep ? please help ! |
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Egh
Joined: Sep 27, '09
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2009-09-27 18:12:12 |
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Never say sorry. Just because you did something wrong doesn’t mean you should apologize, especially if you don’t mean it. I wasn’t telling you those things to make you want to take back your words, that is your opinion of yourself and nothing I say can change that. And also, I love how you try to make yourself seem normal by adding a ‘ :D ' |
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Egh
Joined: Sep 27, '09
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2009-09-27 18:16:59 |
| If it’s your first time, don’t go deep. To go deep, you apply pressure, so don’t apply to much. I don’t think you’ll be able to handle going deep anyway, so that shouldn’t be a problem. For my first time, I used scissors. That worked out for me. I used hair cut scissors because you can open them all the way and get a better hold while you’re cutting. Don’t do it on your fingers, because it hurts to type and write and do stuff like that. If you play a sport that requires an arm, do it on the other. Or, do it on your leg. The choices are endless. | |
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Egh
Joined: Sep 27, '09
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2009-09-27 18:17:51 |
| too much* | |
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So_Confused
Joined: Sep 27, '09
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2009-09-27 18:19:57 |
| Thanks so much for that ... no i dont play sport so that wont be any problem. scissors sounds like a good place to start and on the arms, very easy to cover up. | |
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Cinerhpozihcs
Joined: Sep 27, '09
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2009-09-27 18:25:44 |
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First off, "So Confused", cutting will NEVER -get rid of- anything. It will only mask what will still be there after you've cut yourself. If you truly want a way to "get rid of all your troubles," We would suggest doing something productive and progressive, such as seeing a counselor, or something. (Although, honestly, that has never worked for me. Heh.) Also, I hear "talking" about stuff helps (somehow). You may want to give that a shot. Anyway, as for your question, you should find out if you've had a tetanus shot within the last 10 years before doing any cutting with metal. Cutting can be done with anything sharp, though. . . . You shouldn't cut yourself too deep, since cutting muscle hurts like Hell and it takes much longer to heal than skin. It will also constantly hurt until it actually heals, and even then, it will never be the same. Just deep enough to break the skin should be good enough. Cutting the muscle usually means a lot of blood will rush out. You can lose a liter of blood and be fine, though. (You might faint, however. Heh.) As for what to use, as I said, anything sharp would suffice, but try not to use anything with a jagged/serrated edge, since those would saw and tear the skin instead of cut it, and skin that has been torn or sawed takes longer to heal. There is something else we're forgetting to mention, but I can't quite remember what it is . . . and that really annoys us. >:\ But, yeah, if you haven't started cutting, you shouldn't start to "get rid of your problems," since it most definitely won't. Besides, cutting is just as bad as an addiction as smoking, so you might want to think about that before starting, as well. |
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So_Confused
Joined: Sep 27, '09
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2009-09-27 18:32:20 |
| ive tryed talking. one body gets me not even my best friends, my parents try to get though to me but it doesnt work. there never here and always at work. i have no one to talk to and i dont think a counseler will work because i have a hard time opening up to people lately. i use to be so open but now things are different ! man i sound so crazy but that is just how i feel ! | |
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Cinerhpozihcs
Joined: Sep 27, '09
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2009-09-27 18:33:54 |
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Oh, right, that's it. If you ever plan on wearing something with short sleeves, We I recommend not cutting yourself on your arms. Well, unless, of course, you enjoy awkward conversations. Then, by all means, go for it. If you want to keep it hidden, try doing it on your stomach or upper legs, closer to your groin area. Also, NEVER use a blunt blade! You have to apply my pressure to cut, and if you do it at a wrong angle, you'll f--- yourself up pretty badly and have to go to the hospital, then, once you get out, you'll be sent to a mental health hospital for a while, and you can't cut yourself then because you'll get strip searched every damn night. -.- You should probably sterilize--or clean, at the least--anything you'll be using to cut with, since cuts that don't receive much oxygen are more likely to get tetanus (oxygen kills it) and other illnesses. If for no other reason, clean them just to prevent infections, since they're a pain in the ass. Also, do NOT cut your feet or hands . . . especially your feet. You're almost certain to get an infection on your feet, and walking/touching stuff eventually becomes annoying when there are papercut-like wounds all over your hands/feet. |
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Egh
Joined: Sep 27, '09
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2009-09-27 18:35:41 |
| Why don’t you try getting high? That’s always fun, and it might get your mind off things. It’s better to not start at all because it’s hard to stop. But if you feel you absolutely need to, go for it. Just remember to sterilize your utensil (in your case, the scissors). | |
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So_Confused
Joined: Sep 27, '09
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2009-09-27 18:38:34 |
| okay thank you so much for your help.! is there anything else i should know ? | |
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Egh
Joined: Sep 27, '09
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2009-09-27 18:40:26 |
| Hide it from your mommy and teachers. Don’t let any friends find out if there is even a slight chance they will tell. | |
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Cinerhpozihcs
Joined: Sep 27, '09
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2009-09-27 18:42:16 |
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"So Confused", you hardly sound crazy. That kind of thing is normal for many, many people. Although I'm a horrible example, I used to be quite open, as well, until We developed . . . eh, problems. Just keep trying to get someone to listen to you. A counselor or psychiatrist may be the best option, since they're trained in how to deal and react with situations like these. Friends or peers (people your age) are, in my opinion and experience, not the best idea, since they will often jump to conclusions and say ignorant, harmful things and not even realize it, most of the time. If you sit down and tell your parents that you really have problems that you want to talk to a counselor about to help you, they may try to help, considering what you told us. If they don't, however, you should try telling a teacher or, better yet, a counselor in your school (assuming you go to school), and they're pretty much obligated to get you help. The point is, just keep trying. If everything fails, and if everyone online can't help you in some way, then, by all means, go ahead and cut yourself. But, until that time, if you haven't actually started cutting, you should most definitely try to get help. Cutting really isn't good (or so I'm told). |
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Cinerhpozihcs
Joined: Sep 27, '09
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2009-09-27 18:48:26 |
| Before you "get high", you should know that drugs cost money, and money is required for many other, more important things. If anything, you could use it to help pay for counseling. Heh. Between cutting and drugs, we vote for cutting, since physical damage will heal, while mental damage will not. And, believe us me, not being able to think as clearly as you used to is infinitely more worse than whatever your problems may be. Mind you, however, that both choices are still, supposedly, bad. ^-^ | |
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Unanswered Thread: VRIELLIS PLEASE READ posted by Synapse 14 days ago |
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