Lost And Insecure. Please Help. (If You Care)

alli2011 Joined: Mar 25, '10 Status: New User	2010-03-25 06:32:02
	i was diagonosed with depression, and borderline personality disorder when i was 14. if u have an questions, i can help.
willie Joined: Jun 3, '10 Status: New User	2010-06-03 03:11:55
	You know all that you have to is love yurself first then every thing will fall into place. there is no happiness in trying to please others if you are doing it basically for your self. You can try to please people for the rest of your life and wait for recognition but it will never happen. Remember where ever YOU go there you are so with all the sperm cells that were present your the one that made it that makes you special right there
Losingtheplot Joined: May 16, '10 Status: New User	2010-06-05 18:52:32
	Fatality IS right. You can't be diagnosing yourself at 13. Its worth listening to (some of) us on here, we've been through the sort of stuff you'll be going through. Sure, you may have it. At 13, I knew I was different. But I didn't look into it. And I'm glad I didn't. I think what would be best for you is if you find ways to cope (we'll come to this in a bit), and leave the whole BPD thing for a while. Come back to it when you're older and your personality itself has developed, then you will be able to understand better, and be able to make a clearer decision on whether or not you have BPD. Right now it is just speculation, without anywhere near enough solid personality traits to base it on.
Shroud Joined: May 9, '10 Status: Junior User	2010-06-05 19:25:19
	Your moodiness should subside as you get older. It's also not a good idea to diagnose yourself and go on the first thing you find that sounds right. A lot of symptoms overlap with the different disorders. If sitting by yourself makes you more comfortable then it might actually hurt you in the long run. You need experience dealing with many different personalities to be successful as an adult. Once you're an adult you will be expected to already know how to deal with that in most professions, so it would benefit you to deal with it as much as possible while you're young and don't have enduring consequences for abnormal behavior like extreme moodiness. Pick your future classes knowing that you don't want a profession that you have to deal with people. If you start planning now, even at 13, you will be much more comfortable with the rest of your life.
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