Is it possible not to be avoid around certain people?

Darko14 Joined: Dec 4, '09 Status: New User	2009-12-04 06:38:33
	Hi, around some of my friends i feel fine when we are alone but as they are moderately popular and normal they often attract other friends (sometimes females) and i feel that i cannot partake in the conversation at all. It is worse when it is a female who comes because i feel i would just be crushed if they didn't find me atleast slightly attractive.
Darko14 Joined: Dec 4, '09 Status: New User	2009-12-04 06:39:46
	Avoidant*
Jeanine Joined: Nov 2, '09 Status: Junior User	2009-12-04 11:39:58
	Well at work im social with most exept one dominating fat woman. At home im totally avoidant with people. Ill do small talk bt visiting is a nother story
JDave Joined: Nov 26, '09 Status: Junior User	2009-12-05 15:12:35
	If the context of conversations is limited or defined Im fine. So work is no problem. I flounder when I have to talk about myself, my interests (or lack of), or when invited to social gatherings.
Acedia Joined: Dec 2, '09 Status: New User	2009-12-05 15:18:00
	Yeah, like the others I'm fine at work. I sometimes feel like I have a limit to how social I can be per day, and it seems like I use it all up at work(I'm a cashier). I just can't do any in-depth conversations.
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