love at reach

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kira
Joined: Nov 4, '09
Status: New User
2009-11-04 12:15:28
hello
fact is i'm 19 and i have never had i boyfriend before. well... u can say- maybe i dont look good or not girlfriend type or i'm evil in heart... but all these sort of people hav come across love as well... so no....so not the reason.
if your curious- i went to london for a year to study n the first 3 months there i had more than 100 guys askin me out... literally!....i promise i'm not lying...only ment for your reference.
inspite of this i rejected all of them cause they were all seemed playboy type.
but there is someone i like or more than like but both of us have issues in making the first move...he was dumped a girl real bad when he was 16 and now he cant make the first move cause he lacks confidence in that area.
me.....(sigh)....what can i say.....i dont know how to be romantic or rather incapable of being cheezy...
both of us are work-a-holics...
please help
Unanswered Thread:
   VRIELLIS PLEASE READ posted by Synapse 13 days ago
Delirius
Joined: Nov 3, '09
Status: New User
2009-11-04 12:21:48
Hmm, you two work together? And how often do you talk?
kira
Joined: Nov 4, '09
Status: New User
2009-11-04 13:39:18
we dont work together...lol...i'm so sry
we both are artists from different departments... we dont get to see eachother often because our schedules are very different....but that sort of long distance is what we dont mind because we both love our work aswell.
its just everytime we feel lonely we seek eachothers comfort and we feel very comfortable with eachother.
please reply how a work-a-holic like me could ask a guy out....please ;-)
Delirius
Joined: Nov 3, '09
Status: New User
2009-11-04 13:55:00
Hmm well I totally understand being a workaholic.

I haven't been able to keep a healthy relationship but I'd say the bbq seems like a good idea
kira
Joined: Nov 4, '09
Status: New User
2009-11-04 14:17:02
oh....thankyou
there is another thing
we hav a problem of getting rid of the other people....lol
the girls dont leave him
and both of us hav a habbit of always keeping the people around entertained
so having a barbique.....me busy trying to make perfect meat and him busy making the guests laugh their heads out.
so i need a way of actually inviting him on a date....a way to tell him i like him and that we both should give a chance.
the problem is not rejection here...thankfully...:-D...he likes girls who are assertive... hehehe
the only problem is for me to open my mouth and tell him confidently that i like him.... is there a motto or proverb i could use to push me to it...:-O
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