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henrietta
Joined: Jun 13, '09
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2009-07-30 15:20:57 |
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fantasy, you don't sound like a sociopath. you do have some schizoid characteristics, but defiantly not antisocial. |
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Unanswered Thread: What to do?! posted by Jeanine 4 hours ago |
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Sickmind
Joined: Aug 4, '09
Status: New User |
2009-08-04 09:45:09 |
| I'm anti social and all of my friends are anti social as well. We all know that each other are not right in the head, and we accept that fact because that's just how it is, we often encourage and enforce our behavior when together. I guess I got lucky and didn't grow up and make friends with normal people. I guess the difference between me and most others in this thread from what I understand is that I act out on my thoughts rather than just thinking of them. | |
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Sickmind
Joined: Aug 4, '09
Status: New User |
2009-08-04 09:52:18 |
| I'm anti social and all of my friends are anti social as well. We all know that each other are not right in the head, and we accept that fact because that's just how it is, we often encourage and enforce our behavior when together. I guess I got lucky and didn't grow up and make friends with normal people. I guess the difference between me and most others in this thread from what I understand is that I act out on my thoughts rather than just thinking of them. | |
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wowwww
Joined: Aug 12, '09
Status: New User |
2009-08-12 16:34:30 |
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everyone who posts on this thread in agreement is more or less a complete a--hole and are definitely dishonest with themselves and their humanity. being arrogant is not a virtue, if you are completely satisfied with this trait you are completely satisfied with mediocrity with respect to being a decent person and to an extent your life. unless you are somebody like stephen hawking i wonder what excuse you have to be arrogant, and people as smart as stephen hawking are smart enough to live their lives to the extent that they are not completely neurotic and emotionally detached from themselves. in other words they can live their lives. fantasizing about killing people is clear indication that you resent the people you want to kill unconsciously, but not for the valiant reasons you might come up consciously like "men are this/that". that is called a Rationalization. it is completely healthy to have a relationship with the opposite sex, in fact not having one and being unsuccessful with such would cause somebody to want to harm the other sex. take for example the gunman at LA fitness who killed for no other reason apparently than that they were women. [no urls] if anything, being full of yourself is a wake-up call. |
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henrietta
Joined: Jun 13, '09
Status: Junior User |
2009-08-13 09:36:02 |
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i was wondering if this topic would get someone like you in here. you are being quite judgmental about the people here who might i add cannot help how they feel, or lack there of. wait, let me check for the switch to turn it all back to "normal" oh its not there... |
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wowwww
Joined: Aug 12, '09
Status: New User |
2009-08-13 15:37:07 |
| you are just immature, maybe someday you will realize that | |
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Fatality
Joined: Jul 14, '09
Status: Junior User |
2009-08-13 16:18:22 |
| It seems you missed where it said "disorder" on these forums. I myself am not diagnosed with this, but i respect that it's not their fault what they feel, and i probably couldn't begin to imagine. Not everyone's life is perfect, maybe someday you will realise that. | |
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wowwww
Joined: Aug 12, '09
Status: New User |
2009-08-13 19:06:14 |
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it's a misconception to think that you are simply "the way you are" and unable to change on the inside. the statement in itself is testament to immaturity. take for example henrietta, if she is indeed not a made-up character "you are being quite judgmental about the people here who might i add cannot help how they feel, or lack there of." first of all, the idea that you cannot help how you feel is a poorly conceived notion, you can act to control and change emotions in literally any situation. henrietta mentions apathy which is not really lack of emotion, it's a lack of care. a depressed person doesn't get over depression by sitting around and doing nothing. "wait, let me check for the switch to turn it all back to "normal" oh its not there..." this is the type of immature sarcasm you would expect out of high-schooler, and if i had to use this to estimate your age i would put you from 14-17. "Not everyone's life is perfect, maybe someday you will realize that." who said anyone's life was perfect? repsonding to henrietta's original post i would recommend psychotherapy and/or actually opening up to someone. you might get a hint at the psychic energy you lack by how afraid you are of this. |
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henrietta
Joined: Jun 13, '09
Status: Junior User |
2009-08-14 13:37:31 |
| oh i get it. wowwww is a troll, we should avoid responding to them from now on. | |
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Hip
Joined: Aug 10, '09
Status: New User |
2009-08-14 13:57:48 |
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I'm not defending "wowww" or whoever, but he has a point. Whether your predisposed to be a certain way or not, you still have the capability to choose how to act, like any normal person. I got problems expression compassion and lots of people always told me that I only care about myself etc but I AM capable of being compassionate if I chose to do so. The thing is I dont, because few people deserve any respect from me, and someone is yet to give me a good reason why its illogical to assume nearly everyone, if given the chance will murder the s--- out of you and steal all your valuables if they could get away with it. Everybody is naturally a self-centered prick and every seemingly generous move is always done with some selfish intent. Your out of touch with reality if you believe any different, and sooner or later your naivity will f--- you over, but thats your problem. However, please dont justify yourself with "Im antisocial, its not my fault im a prick" because its virtually the same as saying "Cmon im a prick, not my fault im a prick." You are the master of your own f---ups. Deal with it and quit seeking sympathy (AS IF YOU DESERVE IT, LOL!) |
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Fatality
Joined: Jul 14, '09
Status: Junior User |
2009-08-14 14:12:48 |
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Of course, he had a point, but its they way he put said point across. "everyone who posts on this thread in agreement is more or less a complete a--hole" isn't the best way to start a post :\ This is my view on the situation, if someone such as Henrietta starts a thread like this, which generally at the end asks for people's help, posts like that i guess isn't whats needed. Yeah, he had a point, but to put it across like that... For the record, the last line of the OP "anyone have any idea because i wish to understand myself better in order to move forward in my life" i saw no screams for sympathy. I'm going to end with this, if you have something negative to say, which by all means isn't wrong, just put it in a nice way... |
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Hip
Joined: Aug 10, '09
Status: New User |
2009-08-14 14:36:36 |
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Well she got people to identify with her and share her story, people reminding her shes not a psychopath and everything. To top it off, I identify with much of what she said, especially the last paragraph except for the superpowers part. I also learn to click with the situation and blend wherever I go (ive been to many smalltowns and urban areas alike) and also fantasize about fighting to the death with someone. I dont START fights but wouldn't mind if some a--hole came up to me and decided he wanted to get rowdy, so I could have the rush of adrenaline like I had the last guy I beat the s--- out of. So anyway, to say something productive: henrietta, you will have to learn to accept yourself and move on, because you will never change no matter what happens. Just invest in what makes you happy and learn not to care what others think of you. As long as everything you do doesnt harm anyone or yourself, you got no reason to be so confused. Just do me a favor and dont think so much, kay? |
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henrietta
Joined: Jun 13, '09
Status: Junior User |
2009-08-14 16:19:32 |
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The problem was not with accepting myself. It was learning about myself and knowing myself, but I've figured the only way to do that is life experience. And the things I put in this thread are my thoughts, I don't go around being an a**hole to people because I can. |
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098765
Joined: Aug 15, '09
Status: New User |
2009-08-15 08:42:35 |
| have any of you ever killed anyone | |
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Hip
Joined: Aug 10, '09
Status: New User |
2009-08-15 11:52:36 |
| Yeah, Im sure someone will confess to murder on a public forum. | |